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EDDIE PHILLIPS: BLAZING THE TRAIL 5/22/06
by Sara James
UPDATE:
Eddie Phillips passed away on September 22, 2006. To read
messages or to leave a message for his family, please visit [here]
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"Eddie
& I teamed up in doubles and for 20 years won our share of
tournaments in the Mid-Atlantic area....of all the matches we
played together I can not remember him ever getting upset over a
match. He has always been the consummate gentleman and one
of my best friends." Dick Makepeace |
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On Eddie
Phillips' 225 acre homestead off Huguenot Trail in Midlothian,
there is a tennis court. The day I visited, Eddie's daughter
was hitting on it with a friend. I drove up to the house via
the long expanse of gravel road, and felt like I was entering Tara,
past cows and grazing horses and long grass blowing behind the
fencing that defined the road. I
was 5 minutes late to the appointment, which is not that unusual
for me. The tennis players on the court smiled as I parked nearby,
and told me they liked my license plate ( L8 2 10S). |
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I
apologized for my delayed arrival and they assured me it was fine. Eddie
came out to meet me, the sun shining on his cleanly shaved head. He
offered me his arm instead of his hand when I reached to shake it.
Eddie just had his 8th round of chemo, he explained. "I even
have to do that with the minister."
Time
seems to stand still at the Phillips' farm. I spent well nearly two
hours there, touring the house and grounds and the woodworking building
specially built for Eddie to craft furniture before he became
ill. Now it houses woodworking tools and benches used by
Eddie's wife to carve absolutely exquisite duck decoys, vases, bowls and
wall hangings. "It's a hobby. Somebody asked her to carve
a piece and he called to ask her if it was finished yet. She had to
say it wasn't nearly ready, and that's why she doesn't do it as a
business. That way there's no stress," Eddie told me.
Eddie
and his wife, Linda, have had their share of stress in the past few years,
and now surrounded by their farm and the river, there is a peacefulness
that probably comes with having done good things in your life. With
filling your scrapbook full.
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Eddie
Phillips lived close enough to thumb a ride across the nickel bridge
nearly every day in the summer to play baseball on the fields at
Byrd Park. One day as the 13 year old sat alone on the bench eating
his lunch, Sam Woods approached and asked if he would be interested
in hitting some tennis balls.
"He
said he had an extra racquet, and he put it in my hand," said
Eddie. From then on, Eddie was hooked on tennis.
"He was a very patient man. He seemed to always have the
time to get around to most of the kids. There were 5 or 6 that were
his top players, and he'd spend more time with them. But
everybody got attention."
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Eddie
attended Tee-Jay where he played behind Bobby Payne, Gene Wash, Bobby
Bortner and Lanny Ross. "I worked hard to just get to
#6."
Eventually,
Eddie was good enough to play #2. Eddie's parents were supportive,
but the motivation to play always came from Eddie. "My dad
worked all the time just to put food on the table," he said.
Actually,
that was the way it was with a good many of Sam Woods' students.
"Most of the guys who ended up so successful, would never have even
gone to college if it weren't for Sam," said Eddie. "Bruce
& Del Sylvia's dad, and Bobby Payne's dad - they drove a bus for the
city. They weren't country club kids."
"Now
Bobby Bortner, he had somewhere near 15 college offers, for
football. He was an All-State end. And he had about 10 offers
to play tennis. He was another one of those incredible
athletes. Our last year of high school, we played #1 doubles
together." Bortner and Phillips remain close friends.
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Eddie changes his
clothes in the car for a tennis match at Byrd Park, 1962 |
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After
high school, Eddie received offers to Davidson and George
Washington. He wasn't interested in George Washington, and his
dad refused to submit the financial statement required by
Davidson. "So one day we drove down to William and
Mary. Dad knew a guy there. I was accepted, and offered
a scholarship, but dad wouldn't let me take it. He said I
wouldn't want to be a 'hired hand'."
Eddie
played tennis anyway for William and Mary, in the #1 spot. He
finished as a finalist in the city tournament to O.H. Parrish twice,
in 1962 and 1965. In 1966, things were set up well for
him. "That year I was fortunate. My doubles partner
beat Dick Makepeace, and Bortner got beaten, so all that was good
for me." He claimed the title, defeating Bobby Cabell,
Jr.
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Eddie
was active in Westwood Club tournaments and the Hotchkiss Cup team in the
60's, playing doubles many times with Makepeace and Cabell. His
career kept him busy at the Terminals, working with his father. His first
marriage ended, and he met Linda, who was dating his doubles partner at
the time. They have two children, Eddie, Jr. and Debbie.
Eddie, Jr. is an outstanding player who played at St. Christopher's.
He often pairs with Willow Oaks pro Lynn Bybee in tournaments.
"I built the tennis court to keep him around awhile," said
Eddie. Debbie uses the court too, since she lives just up the road from
her parents. The horses are for the grandkids.
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The
Phillips share a passion for woodworking. Eddie showed me
several cabinets he built before his surgeon told him to quit.
The dust created from carving is a known carcinogen, he
explained.
In
2003, Eddie was diagnosed with nasal and sinus cancer. On May
8, 2003, surgery was performed, and chemotherapy treatments
started. Eddie and his family were hopeful. Eddie went
back to playing tennis now and then at Westwood with his pals Del
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Last
summer, his eye bulged and a visit to the doctor confirmed a bad
prognosis. The cancer had returned. No surgery was
anticipated. He was told maybe two to three months. Eddie
entered a hospice.
Chemotherapy
seemed to work. "One day, the bulge had shrunken so much that
my eye just popped back open," Eddie said.
Eddie
left the hospice, and came back to the farm and a reclining bed in the
den, where he anticipated being for 90 days. After 45 days in bed,
he got bored. "I went to the doctor and said 'this is
getting old.' I asked him if there was something else I could
do.
"He
said, sure. Go ahead and get out of bed and do anything you want. So
I did."
There
is hardly any evidence that Eddie has been very sick inside the Phillips'
home. Where Eddie's reclining bed used to be, we perused piled-up
scrapbooks in search of old photographs from his tennis 'glory days'.
In
one scrapbook, we came upon on article written on the death of his
friend and tennis partner, Wayne Adams. "Wayne was the best
player who never won the City or State tournament," Eddie said.
He died in a freak accident, one of those random events that happens to
college students who crave the extra thrill. "We played doubles
together for two years, had just played together that summer before he
went off to Randolph-Macon. He was a great friend."
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Eddie with friend and partner Wayne Adams |
"Linament
Smells like Roses to Phillips,"
stated an article from the Times-Dispatch. "The
sweet smell of success had a distinct odor for Phillips at the Tidewater
Invitational."
According
to the story, Eddie forced a 45 minute delay to receive leg massages for
treatment of leg cramps. "Eddie beat
(1) mumps, (2) too much salt and (3) a spinal injury to win the
Championship."
"I
don't remember having an injured back," Eddie said to me and
Linda.
Eddie
told the reporter at the time that "I took
at least 20 salt tablets today when I got up and then I just never
stopped."
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As
we walked down the steps of his home, surveying the view southward,
I stood to take in the beautiful day and the calm farmland
spread between me and the busy highway at the end of the road. I
realized then why it didn't matter that I was 5 minutes late to our
interview. It just didn't. |

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"I
feel good," Eddie told me. He gave me his permission to write
about his struggle, and his 'miracle man' status to date. "I
like to feel like I'm blazing a trail. I'm doing something that
doctors didn't think would happen."
Eddie
Phillips is one great Champion, and not just in tennis.

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